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Ockenden Manor Spa & Hotel Review

I am spoilt when it comes to Spas. When I visited Ockenden Manor Spa I had been at Kamalaya in Koh Samui only 3 weeks earlier. They are very different spa experiences – particularly when it comes to service.

But Ockenden Manor Cuckfield was lovely in a uniquely English way – anyway here is my complete review.

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The Spa

Ockenden Manor Spa & Hotel

Ockenden Manor history goes back some way. The first recorded owners of Ockenden Manor were the Michel family in the mid-1500s. Alas, the Manor was burnt down in September of 1608. It was rebuilt at some point in the 1650s.

It became a guest house and restaurant after World War Two. Ockenden Manor Cuckfield West Sussex is a lovely old hotel – so cozy. There are stunning fresh flowers everywhere.

The Ockenden Manor bar is really comfy and there is a lovely big sort of drawing room with a fireplace which is where afternoon tea was served.

Top Tip: Make sure you book your Ockenden Manor afternoon tea before your stay. It is very popular and sells out quickly. If you do miss out on a spot the Ockenden Manor spa restaurant offers delicious scones.

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A walk around Cuckfield

Ockenden Manor Hotel & Spa: Things to Do

Go for a walk. Ockenden Manor has a brilliant folder with about 20 different walks. The walks vary in length from 30 minutes to 5 hours.

It is a great set up – the hotel has photocopied all of them so you just take out a copy of the walk you want.

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Walking Map

Ockenden is actually in the town of Cuckfield which is cute. It has a beautiful old church with a picturesque graveyard. We were lucky enough to have a beautiful morning and ended up randomly wandering a bit.

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Cuckfield Church

If you have a car then Brighton is a short drive (Read my post about a Brighton day trip here). Rye and Battle are also lovely places to visit that are nearby.

Ockenden Manor: Food and Drinks

Let’s start with the wine list. My favorite thing about the Ockenden Manor wine list was that they had 3 local sparkling wines on offer. Sussex is a great area for English sparklings.

Or if you want to go with classic French champagne don’t miss The Gosset. Ockenden has an extensive wine list plus several wine options by the glass.

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The Ockenden Manor Bar

We had lunch on arrival. The Ockenden Manor menu on a Sunday features roasts. I had the roast beef which was delicious and served wonderfully pink.

It came with some chips and some carrots which were a nice change from a full-on all the trimmings roast.

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Time for a roast!

Our Ockenden Manor spa package included a 3-course dinner so of course, we had to take advantage of all 3 courses.

I started with the stilton dumplings. I had never had a stilton dumpling. It was delicious. Creamy Stilton oozed out. Yum.

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Next up was cod with mushrooms on top and a lovely foam sauce. Dessert was an amazing chocolate fondant with mint choc chip ice cream.

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Delicious Cod

Ockenden Manor breakfast was a mix of cooked a la carte and a buffet. The orange juice was particularly good. The buffet features stewed and fresh fruits, some lovely yogurt, and small pastries.

There is some lovely local cheese that I couldn’t not try – the cheddar was particularly good. Then I had the scrambled eggs and smoked salmon which were fantastic.

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Breakfast buffet

We enjoyed a late lunch at the Ockenden spa. We couldn’t decide between wraps or salad we split a chicken wrap and superfood salad – this was excellent.

Next up were the scones which were absolutely sensational. The clotted cream was amazing. There is free coffee all over the Ockenden Manor spa which is a nice touch.

There is a Nespresso machine in the spa and in the room and it is all complimentary. As we are in England, of course, there is tea everywhere.

Ockenden Manor Rooms

We loved our room. We had a twin room called David on the 2nd floor. I think we were under the eaves/in a loft.

It was quite spacious and yet so cozy. We had two super cute little windows with seats underneath. The beds were very very comfortable. The interior was cute and English eccentric. We even had a comfy couch.

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The comfy single bed

There are bathrobes and some nice toiletries in the room at Ockenden Manor. There were 2 sets of toiletries with one set actually in the shower (why don’t more hotels put the actual shower toiletries in the shower???) and another full set by the basin.

We had both a claw foot bathtub and a gorgeous giant shower with which I was very happy.

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Love a big shower head
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The bathroom
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Lovely toiletries

Our Ockenden Manor room had 2 bathrobes and a hairdryer.

Ockenden Manor – The Spa

The spa is a lovely building and space. It is not huge and we were there in January when it was fully booked. Alas, it did feel a bit full.

There is a nice seating area next to reception with a view over the pool etc where you can eat or wait for your Ockenden Manor spa treatments.

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The entrance to the Spa

The Ockenden Manor spa treatment menu is big. I only sampled the flotation tank. It was very nice but if I am very honest I got a bit bored. This is one of their signature spa treatments.

The spa facilities have a gorgeous rainforest-type walk-through and around shower experience which I loved. At 15m the swimming pool is long enough for laps.

There is an outside and inside section of the swimming pool and outside and inside jacuzzis.

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The Rainforest Shower

The spa has nice couches and lounge chairs all around but not as many as you would ideally like – the space felt a little cramped and it was tough to get a lounge.

I think it would be better to visit when it is warmer (yes ha ha) as there are then lounge chairs outside increasing your chances of bagging one. There is a full gym at Ockenden Manor but I chose to do laps instead.

There is also yoga on offer but it was full the day we were able to go. Yoga classes cost an additional 6 pounds.

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Time for a swim!

Bathrobes, towels, and flip-flops are on offer in the change room. The spa has a steam room and a sauna. There is a decent change room with showers. I loved the toiletries which were Elemental Herbology.

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Lots of products on offer in the spa

There are loads of different packages and spa offers available at Ockenden Manor. These cover both day spa deals as well as deals like we had for accommodation and dinner and breakfast.

Our offer also included 25 pounds towards a treatment.

Ockenden Manor Hotel & Spa: The Service

The service was such a mix. Everyone is so friendly and so lovely. But things aren’t exactly smooth. We arrived and sat down in the bar to look at lunch – it was just after 130 and lunch finished at 2.

We preferred the bar to the main restaurant but then there was back and forth as to whether we could have the restaurant menu in the bar area.

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Lunch at the spa

We then waited over 20 minutes to be asked for a drink order – and that only happened after I got up and found someone. They were lovely about it but still, it wasn’t ideal.

We then went to the spa where we were told that the yoga class was booked out for the next day as were most of the treatments.

This was a little frustrating as it would have been nice to know this might happen and that we should book ahead of time.

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The lounge area

Again, it was slow getting a drink ordered in the evening and slow to get our order taken. However, the food arrived quickly, it was delicious and the service was very friendly.

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Loved their crockery!

It was slow to get our coffee and breakfast order taken in the morning – despite asking if we could order coffee asap when we came in. However, again the food arrived quickly and was delicious.

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The devil is in the detail

The spa had a lot of staff on but there were still waits at the reception. I was then told oh your booking was at 12 when it had been and they had suggested changing it to 1230.

Alas, this was the theme of the stay – slightly not right service and slow initially but very friendly, the goods were great and once we got things going they moved quickly and were done properly. Such an unusual mix!

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Time for a cup of tea

Ockenden Manor: The Verdict

Visiting Ockenden Manor Spa on a deal is fantastic value for money. The property is stunning, the rooms lovely and the food is excellent.

The spa is lovely and has excellent facilities. The only downside was the often very slow service. However, when I offset this against the value for money it is still well worth visiting.

I would recommend attending outside of winter. There will probably be fewer people and the warm weather means you can head outside which I think will give a greater sense of space.

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Ockenden Manor Spa – Getting There and Getting Away

Ockenden Manor Hotel & Spa is located in lovely Sussex – not far from London. Indeed it is only about 45 minutes on a train from London Bridge and then a 5-minute cab ride so it is super easy to get there.

There are also direct trains to Haywards Heath (the nearest station) from London Victoria and London Blackfriars.

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Grayshott Health Spa has both indoor and outdoor pools, an extensive treatment menu and nutritious food. Check out their programs. Prices from £175.

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I covered all of the costs of my stay at Ockenden Manor. This post does contain affiliate links.

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Friday 11th of October 2019

The architecture and Spa experience seems awesome, and i feel the yoga class are affordable. Thanks for sharing the article was worthy reading and sharing.Keep up the good work.

Leon Smith

Sunday 22nd of April 2018

Awesome! Love finding places with such a rich history. Thanks for sharing this. Keep up the good work

Vedante | The Lavish Nomad

Saturday 3rd of March 2018

The architecture is quite stunning and I’m very impressed by the rainforest shower! Would love to visit just for the shower haha

Liz Gen

Wednesday 28th of February 2018

What a beautiful place to stay. Staying in an accommodation with a spa is really a bonus. Nothing compares to having a relaxing stay while enjoying the place at the same time. The looks fabulous too.


Tuesday 27th of February 2018

Thanks for sharing this review! I didnt have a chance to visit Sussex when I was in England. I hope to visit this place next time. By the way, the foods look so yummy

The Boutique Adventurer

Tuesday 27th of February 2018

Thanks Elvira! the food was fab - it is worth checking out next time you are in the UK

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